Posts Tagged ‘myself’
Time is Precious
Posted on: 04/07/2018
It’s widely known that time is Precious, valuable to everybody.
We all have heard sayings like «best to miss a minute in life, than life in a minute».
We don’t like to waste our precious time, and nowadays there are so many things to do and jiggle with the 24 hours that a day has got to offer.
If we take away the hours at work, sleeping, commuting and common tasking, we are really only left with a few hours spare to enjoy our day. If any of our pre programmed tasks are delayed, then chances are, we won’t be able to enjoy our spare time as planned.
Nowadays we have all sort of compromise to attend, visiting here and there. Work dos, birthdays, gigs, pubbing, than when we really want to make time to spend with your love ones, it’s difficult to coincide.
Something has come up and we can’t meet. I’m away for work and coming back really late. Let’s play by ear. Let’s rain check at the weekend. All of these could potentially be true and meaningful, but there is slight chance that could also be excuses. It’s a difficult one.
Personally I would like to give the benefit of the doubt. As long as what it is promised after is actually carried through. That’s the key to a relationship, if you say something, mean it and do it. Don’t break that promise, because it will always be very hard to come back from that deception.
Till next blog.
We live in a society where everything needs to be defined either by a title or a name, maybe to be able to comprehend that situation or anything that relates to.
We also tend to have an idea of what’s wrong or what’s good. What is politically correct or not. What suits best or what doesn’t. What’s expected or not. Then again, all those are just suppositions and therefore inaccurate assumptions. Because we know that there are always exceptions to the rules.
People feel the need to ask questions and expect and answer, an answer that does not necessarily means it would be the answer they expect. We tend to ask rhetoric questions for answer that we already know. But when we answer honestly and truthfully to that question, sometimes they don’t like it. That was not the answer they were expecting.
I can’t see how random people you have just met, feel they’ve got the right to judge you and your partner.
A: How long have you two been together?
B: I really don’t want to answer that
A: I wouldn’t put you the two of you together.
B: Why is that?
Who gives them the right to judge why any given people can’t be together? Regardless of age, gender, background, religion, status… who are you to say such and such are not good for me, not suitable, or what else. Do I sense a tone of jealously? Maybe.
I never found out the reason behind such a degrading, unrespectful comment. But I don’t need to.
Sometimes, if not always, I’m not prepared to give explanations or justify me or my acts. I don’t feel the need to share my private life with everybody or anybody. If I want to share, I will. But please don’t ask or make irrelevant comments that the only thing it does is hurting people.
Life doesn’t understand of cliches, or conventional. It would be a very boring life to live on.
I’ll say, if life gives you lemons, just make a lemonade.
Until next 😉
Have you ever met the opposite gender version of yourself? In this case, the male version of myself.
I have come across recently with someone that the more I know about him, the freakier it gets as everyday I’m even more convinced that he is the male version of myself. It’s like looking at myself in the mirror, in a younger male version.
Everyone knows there a 6 degrees of separation, meaning that at one point or another, you are surrounded by someone who will have a connection in someway with you. Life has managed to find the unexpected connection between my male self and myself. It sounds a bit surreal, but sometimes life is.
I wonder, how much you have to have in common with a person to connect? But if the personality of a person is, it’s exactly like yours, in many ways, then you have got your match. And if so, where has this person been all your life, or at least partly, and most importantly what is the reason of showing up in your life now?
It’s widely known that opposites attract, that has usually being the case. Though this time, it’s the opposite at such, as the equals attract. It should make some sense, as you are both so equal that it should be easy to get along, or equally clash so hard that can make it all gone wrong. And if there was going to be love involved, would be like loving your own self?
Many questions unanswered.
❤
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